As we approach Mother’s Day, many of us will be reminded of our mothers and the place they hold in our hearts. Whether our mother is still with us or has passed from this world, Mother’s Day is a special time to celebrate these women and the immense impact they have on our lives. It goes without saying that those who have lost their mother may experience added grief on this day. However, there are other groups of people who also experience additional pain or grief during this time: those who don’t have (or never had) a relationship with their mother, those who are unable to have children, couples who have suffered from miscarriage or stillborn children and all other special circumstances.

This Mother’s Day, be aware of your own emotions as well as those of others. If you find that Mother’s Day mass is too hard or painful to attend, spend the day worshiping from home. If you know someone is struggling with any of the situations listed above, or an equally difficult situation, make an effort to let them know you’re thinking about and praying for them. Wherever, however, and with whomever you celebrate this Mother’s Day, remember that Christ is with you and that His plan is far greater than the highs and the lows of our lives here on earth.

Take a look at the prayer below and share with others.

Dear God,
Thank you for the gift of motherhood. Thank you for the blessing it is to be called “Mom.” Thank you for the good plans you have in store for those who still wait to be a Mom. Thank you for the numerous spiritual children you have given to so many “spiritual moms” and mentors. We pray that you would fill this day with favor and grace as we honor Moms all around our nation.
We ask for comfort for those who are grieving loss and heartache, especially on this day. We ask for strength for those who wait for children to come back home. We ask for healing for those who have been hurt by relationships that were intended to be loving and nurturing. We ask for faith for those who will someday be Moms, who find themselves on a journey that seems so hard. We ask for great encouragement and grace to cover those who have made a brave and loving choice for adoption. We ask for incredible provision and care over every single parent mom who works so hard on behalf of her children. We ask that you would remind many of those who, though they do not have “physical” children, have the gift of being amazing hope-bringers to many spiritual children they’ve been blessed to nurture through these years.
God, thank you, for the gift of life. Thank you that your heart is for us, and that you are with us, in all our unique journeys and pathways. Thank you that you are Sovereign over every part of our lives.  Thank you that your ways are perfect and you make our footsteps secure.
Today we pray for refreshing, for joy, for grace, for wisdom, for great peace…for all moms, for moms to be, and for women who nurture and lead.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen. (source) 
Post written by Katie Karpinski

3 responses to “Handling Mother’s Day: Comfort and Prayers for the Bereaved”

  1. What a beautiful prayer!

  2. Dear Katie,
    This message was truly inspired and will touch so many women. So inclusive, loving and honest.
    I had a deep sense that this reflection was written by a woman and then i saw your name. You represent a window into acknowledging what the church is missing as the hierarchy continue to exclude women’s wisdom and voices from sacred ministries of the church. . i.e. homilies, deacon, .on and on
    My deep gratitude. I will share with family and friends.
    Esther Kennedy

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    Eleanor Kennedy

    Thank you for this beautiful prayer. In 1959 my sister gave birth to a little girl who lived for only 4 hours. Dorothy told me that her so-called-friends said hurtful things like ‘why are you crying it was only a baby’ ‘oh you can have more’. She lost her child and they had no compassion. she could not have another child and grieved for years. We made a promise to each other in our early teens that the first to have a daughter would name her Therese after the Little Flower So she named her daughter Adele Therese. Four years later I got my Therese Marie on Oct. 1st and Dorothy was so pleased and called her Teddy Bear. We need to embrace all women. Also, I enjoyed my little Black Book thank you and Happy Easter. God Bless you, with love, Ellie

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